Saturday, August 3, 2019
Friday, August 2, 2019
Wednesday, July 31, 2019
Bring sea shell pasta (cheat one) to a boil and drain. In separate pan, bring 1/2 cup water and 1/2 cup olive oil to a boil. In the boil add 1 teaspoon of better than bullion (veggie blend). Next add fresh mushrooms. Stirring as you go add carrots next, then celery and the celery leaf. Next mix in whole and raw almonds ... keep stirring as you go. Now add fresh garlic cloves, then fresh basil leaves. Now, chop a bit of green peppers and add them. Keep stirring. Finally add some hearts of palm. And the last cheat? 2 shots of Evan Williams (or your bourbon choice). As this is all mixed, the water cooks out, the oil and bullion cooks in, the whiskey adds a mild zing and a mild sweetness. Combine the noodles and gently toss a bit. Now for a high protein boost and more tummy / muscle joy, place a plain egg omelette on the plate (olive oil fried and a bit runny ... minimally so), sprinkle fresh raw spinach over the egg and then top it with this delightful mushroom/almond/veggie/pasta paradise! Your body, your brain and your soul can be treated in one clever meal! The carbs, the sweets, the salt, the veggies, nuts, proteins and greens are all here ... YUMMEEEE!
#makingbrainshappy #healthyeats #mentalhealth
PHOTO CREDIT: Me!
*This is not a low fat, low sodium, low sugar, low carb, low protein meal. If you have dietary restrictions consult your nutritionist and MD about foods you eat.
Thursday, July 18, 2019
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Tuesday, July 9, 2019
In a few hours beliefs can change, habits can end and new ways of thinking, feeling and even acting are altered! CHT is not for everybody - what therapy is? If the method I'm trained in is a good fit it's quite coool!
Friday, July 5, 2019
1 2 3 4 5 Meatless Chilli... A nutritional hack for the mind!
Organic medium salsa, organic stewed tomatoes, light red kidney beans and black beans ...
1 - drain canned items, 2 - combine, 3 - heat to a simmer only, 4 - stir and 5 - serve!
It's ready, start to finish 5 minutes!
Healthy eats are ONE part of mental health. It doesn't have to be difficult or take forever and it can be delicious even without meat! And yes, you can tweak the dish to your desires... it's your food and your body after all! Here I'm suggesting a clean eat, a simple eat, a healthy eat, a quick eat and one that feeds, feeds, feeds!
Eclectic mental health ... a collective and diverse approach to change!
Thursday, July 4, 2019
Kurt LaRose, July 4th, 2019
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Monday, June 24, 2019
K. LaRose @ TalkifUwant.com
PHOTO CREDIT: Me in DC!
Friday, June 21, 2019
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Monday, June 10, 2019
A sense of pride is a bit healthy in the human psyche. Sure it is an event in the United States. As a part of language (long before it was ever an event in the US or the UK) "pride" has been considered a dirty word. History has not served "pride" too well - yet pride might serve history's people - well. How? Having a bit of pride, a bit of "ego strength", being okay with who you are, accepting that not all will approve or like you, and being okay with others as who they are, accepting as well that you may not necessarily like them too - is one way of looking at pride. Pride is not unloving. Pride is not condemning. Pride is inclusive - for the willing - and for those who have the capacity for a change in views. It's just a tweak ... as a culture there is a lot to be learned about and from pride...first of all, having some is healthy. #podcast #pride #mentalhealth #therapy
Saturday, May 25, 2019
Thanks to secure technology asynchronous mental health and behavioral health services CONNECT NOW is available to users 24 hours a day. And to help users who prefer to log in and leave notes, files, and journals for the therapist to review and reply to - at wee hours in the morning or during a coffee break at the office, or maybe right after an argument with a loved one - the time is now with TalkifUwant! For DC and FL residents you can now log in 24/7 and post messages (in a number of digital formats, such as shared journals, chat, secure emails and shared files) from you to the therapist - confidentially. Next, you'll get notified when you have a reply - so you can log in and check out "what the expert suggested." To learn more about this monthly online plan register today and choose the asynchronous option to get started! Have questions? No problem, feel free to call too! Log in 24 hours a day, click the "asynchronous subscription" option, by and learn more here!
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Thursday, May 23, 2019
In an age where "friends" are often little known connections represented by icons, images and even people possibly known, where the prompts to be intertwined with even more who have others in common incessantly appear - the digital gatherings grow. As vocabularly and definitions expand to include a more modern time - where a wall, a follow, a snap, a post, a chat and an emotion have taken on expanded meanings - the word "friend" has joined the new narrative, the new lexicon and webster's has some catching up to do. Wouldn't it be neat if the masses included in their friends list - an expanded view too, a new definition of sorts as well in these ever changing times ---an ideal connection indeed with a person who would be famililar, close, and very well known? This new friend, now being expanded to include the most valuable one of them all - could be someone endeared and to whom care and regard and affection would appear (maybe as often as the dings, dongs, vibrations and bells remind us of something to check). To the walls we would race looking and seeing what is captured in meaningful pics, vids and feeds of a touching sort - there where our most precious friend checks in from time to time. There we might find a moment gaining likes and shares of all kinds -- thumbs up abound and a sensational thing that is able to go viral if you will. And just who is this friend being spoken of? Ahhh, it's too simple, yet difficult to do, it seems. You see, if you were a friend to you, if you gave as much attention and time to you as you dedicate in hours online, if you commented as often and checked in with you - maybe half as frequently as you do now with so many others - a defining friend would almost certainly appear. For today, "friend" you - and see what happens in this changing view! #friends #therapy #definitions
Sunday, April 28, 2019
Healthy eats are as good for the body and brain - as it is the mind. Changing body, brain and mind can be as simple as "garbage in, garbage out." Simple does not mean cheap, however. Often one of the challenges in overall health can be boiled down to costs. Not just healthcare costs or access to premium services - but food costs can impact illness, inlcuding mental illness. Fish contains natural ingredients that can improve mood, reducing anxiety and improving depression; it can help with necessary fats and can make the skin and the hair look - well - better. In preparing fish, skin on can add to the health content - and so can upping the flavor by using health replacers! For example, replacing butter and fat with olive oil from frying pan to oven baked, replacing the flour based bread crumbs with coffee ground almonds, replacing the salt with a splash of soy sauce, reducing "fishy flavors" (if you must) by adding fresh lemon and canned olives, adding delicacy with fresh basil, sweet red peppers and fresh garlic cloves...move it to the oven on a cookie sheet (covered with a second oiled cookie sheet at about 375) .... you see healthy and delicious can be a thing! What the fish will do for the body and brain, the prep and concentration on healthy alternatives will do for mind. Plus when body and brain work better, mind (ways of thinking) will adapt better. Plasticity is enhanced. Youth is enhanced. Affirmations build.
Monday, April 15, 2019
Friday, March 29, 2019
Implicit bias is NOT complicated: It can simply change.
The idea that implicit bias cannot change is false. Changing implicit bias begins with changing two simple words. Find. Better. Words. #Bias #ImplicitBias #CtrlAltDel
Saturday, March 23, 2019
K. LaRose, first published May 2018, TalkifUwant.com
Photo credit: Kat Yukawa, Unsplash
Thursday, March 21, 2019
Thanksgiving ... in March? Sure! Gratitude is a thing in the concept and in the science of happiness! It is not, however, a spinning of a view for the sake of GETTING happy. It is actual gratitude - a true assigned thought, an assigned view and perspective that is genuine to the eys of the beholder. Why is that? Well, you don't need someone to TELL you what you already know ... "be grateful!" they say. And many times it is a politically correct way of also saying "and shut up, I don't want to hear that you are upset about ANYTHING." Being thankful is finding something, maybe even ONE thing that you hold dear and that you have some degree of thanks for ... whatever that is! I recall once spending three days with what is called an out of instructional control youth - he had been cursing at me, yelling at me, throwing things through doors and windows and just being so damn tired of it all. I knew I was at my "wits end" so I called my boss and said something like - "if this doesn't stop I'm going to quit!" She said the most counterintuitive thing of all ... "right now what you need to do is walk into that destroyed room and find one thing that kid is doing right - a real thing - and tell him that you are glad that he is doing it." In my exasperation I said something that was MOSTLY sarcastic: "okay, like hey, I'm glad that you are breathing?" My boss said, without missing a beat -"Kurt, if that is all you have then yes, go tell him that you are glad he is breathing. I know it seems like the craziest thing given how awful he's been, but try it." I was pissed for the chaos, the days of sleep deprivation, the impact on my family and the other youth in the home ... but ... the ONE thing I was okay with --- it was that this kid was breathing...and at that moment, it was the ONLY thing. As I said it to him, conscious of just how stupid this might seem or sound, it was all I had and my angst turned to understanding. In all of the things that mattered, the material, the time, the interference, the disruptions --- what mattered the most was that he (and I) were alive. My angst shifted ... just enough to bring a bit of joy. Today, in hindsight, that view is a memory that contributes to today's happiness. Getting through, trying something new, and being true about that which I was grateful - reshaped my entire paradigm ... at that time in looking at the moment, in looking forward, in prioritizing, and now in hindsight! K. LaRose
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Wednesday, February 13, 2019
Monday, January 21, 2019
Within five years of his Lincoln Memorial speech, proclaiming “thank God Almighty I’m free at last!” Martin Luther King Jr. would become the victim of an assassination. The eerie parallels of notoriety in their generations apart and in common positions, both billowing out famous words that would play over and over in a repetitive history that deems them worth repeating, their assassinations of two who become ‘greats’ in the annals of revolutionaries, and then MLK having as his backdrop a statute of Lincoln to now there too is a statute of MLK! As he went about his life addressing ‘the majority’ MLK created iconic moments so that “free at last, free at last” to this day necessarily perpetuates. His task was probably known to be a grand cause, as indicated by other now famous words he spoke - not so long ago attesting to character instead of color as another one example. I wonder if today MLK would be pleased about the changes he and others have forged and the changes that others have assumed since his passing. For all of the 2019 glass ceilings that have ethnic correlations – and - for all of those same ceilings that appear to have been broken – what might MLK say in looking at a city such as this? In looking at a country such as this? Ethnic disparities across various cohorts remain. Also, arguments over whose fault “it” is - remain. Likely the forgone admonition of MLK would be his same call for today: “We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy.” Today sir, you are honored. Photo Credit: Jeronimo Bernot on Unsplash.